It's Wedding Season - What Should I Spend On The Perfect Wedding Gift?
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Thousands of people each year attend weddings and with the wedding ceremonies and receptions increasingly more elaborate, some are wondering how much to spend on a gift for the bride and groom. There are numerous things to be considered when figuring out what to spend on a gift. Here are some simple guidelines to follow.
The first rule when it comes to wedding gifts is definitely what you feel comfortable giving. Having said that, there are lots of people that would like to make sure they give an amount that is neither too little nor too large. One consideration when figuring out what kind of wedding gift to give is the the couple getting married. With younger couples getting married for the first time, they are just starting out and would usually appreciate a monetary gift more than anything else to help pay for their wedding expenses, buying their first home, help with furnishing an apartment, etc.
For other, more mature couples that are already established, monetary gifts are of less importance and they would be happy either with a monetary gift or with a thoughtful gift.
Obviously one factor when deciding on the amount of a wedding gift is how well you know the couple being wed. If you are an immediate family member or a very close friend, a gift of money totaling several hundred dollars to thousands of dollars is not uncommon. It really depends on how much you can afford to give. Ultimately the couple is just happy to have those who are close to them in attendance for their wedding day. Of course some sort of gift is common etiquette.
For others attending the wedding, such as friends, co-workers and distant family members, you should usually give an amount that you think is equal to the cost of inviting you to the wedding. For instance, if you think the cost to invite both you and your guest is $100 than this amount is appropriate. If possible give this amount plus 25% to 50% extra, your gift will be graciously received.
You may think about asking the bride and groom if they are registered somewhere, you can then pick out a gift they actually want, saving them the hassle of making a return after the wedding. Traditionally the couple would register for basics such china and place settings. Today couples register for a myriad of items including anything from food processors to board games. A gift should be a token of affection. They may also be brought to the reception. In this case family members will be responsible for seeing that all presents are delivered to the bride and groom.
Gifts of money can be mailed to the happy couple right after you receive an invitation to their special day. For those giving actual gifts and gifts of money, the rules are typically the same.
In any event a proper card should be included with every gift, whether it be monetary or otherwise. A card can say much about your well wishes for the happy couple. Never underestimate the power of an exceptional card.
Deciding on a wedding gift does not need to be stressful. The bride and groom are embarking on a new phase of their lives together. They will be happy with whatever gift you give them.
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